People complaining about FT% want it eventually taken out of the game. You say 0 in 1000 is not realistic.
Well, guess what, 1 in 10 is also not realistic, even 1 in 5 is not. You think that everyone should start with 50% FT?
Don't forget this is a game please... It has simple rules. You train, you gain!
If we're talking about unrealistic, I also don't think that a guy with Strong passing and Atrocious Handling is realistic, or someone with Prominent JS and Atrocious JR, or a 7'5 player with Atrocious blocking. There are so many examples, but most people realize this is part of the game. Otherwise we would all have the same players with the same or similar skills and it would be booooring....
So please, stop moaning, and start training.