we are pretty cautious with forum bans, and when you cross the borders in heat some post get deleted and maybe you get an extra warning by mail depending on the severity of the insult.
Not sure what you really want, but interpreting forum rules always have to be aware of the situation around and the intention of the posters. if we have such strict rules who could be processed automatic, there would be either plenty active trolls or an enviroment which makes it impossible to talk. So yes moderating depends lot of the feeling and impression of the current gm, and we see judge thing differently through different backgrounds and impression. Even when we try to moderate on the same level.
For me it look like you want to talk about current cases, which is forbidden in the forum rules so that i close this one.