at first I opted to check new members before I alowed them in my need more girls FED, but then I noticed it was to easy to forget to check, so I changed it to a free for all fed...
If you do not have much applicants for your fed you might opt for this solution too. Should someone join who is unwanted you can still remove him/her from your fed.
This suggestion is usefull, I don't know if it will happen soon though, there are undoubtly much more tasks the BBs try to get done which might have more impact on the game or a larger group of users...
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