my starters are not that much better than my reserves, I believe that helps.
Yep, this seems to be the key for most games.
indeed. So far I saw only 2 reasons for not wanting to put in subs and that is either the sub is not good enoug, or his skills are good enough but his game shape is realy bad.
Another trick that might work if you have big diffrence in subs and starters is to always play high paces. This tires your starters quicker, which might give your subs more minutes, and it also gives higher points in games, if you are better then your opponent you will lead by 20 in the last quarter and then your coach will bench your starters and let your back-ups play as long as they can keep up the good lead.
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